// Step 7: Give Me Something to Believe In//

It’s easy to fall down and not get back up again all because you’re alone and lost sight of what it was you were fighting for to begin with. Was I even fighting for myself to start? Have I even been fighting? And why am I alone?…truth is it doesn’t matter. To be a hero there’s always something to fight for whether it’s for you or something else who doesn’t have the strength or courage to fight themselves. And don’t worry about being alone…someone will find you

Believe in yourself

We are all at our cores the sum of our fears. To face destiny we must, inevitably, face those fears, and conquer them. Whether they come from the familiar or the unknown.
Mohinder - Heroes
When we embrace what lies within, our potential knows no limit. The future is filled with promise. The present, rife with expectation. But when we deny our instinct, and struggle against our deepest urges… Uncertainty begins. Where does this path lead? When will the changes end? Is this transformation a gift… or a curse? And for those that fear what lies ahead… The most important question of all… Can we really change what we are?
Mohinder - Heroes
You do not choose your destiny, it chooses you. And those that knew you before Fate took you by the hand cannot understand the depth of the changes inside. They cannot fathom how much you stand to lose in failure…that you are the instrument of flawless Design. And all of life may hang in the balance. The hero learns quickly who can comprehend and who merely stands in your way
Mohinder - Heroes
Still searching for that look-a-like…could do with a map. 

Still searching for that look-a-like…could do with a map. 

This quest. This need to solve life’s mysteries. In the end, what does it matter when the human heart can only find meaning in the smallest of moments? They’re here. Among us. In the shadows. In the light. Everywhere. Do they even know yet?
Mohinder - Heroes

// Step 6: Star-cunning you’re right…you rule//

All credit to star-cunning she opened my eyes and she was right if there’s someone  you like don’t be afraid to lay your cards on the table because end of the day the only thing that comes close to hearing someone you like say they like you is…hearing them tell you face to face that they are not interested before you get too involved. It makes things easier to move on with and you get that feeling of relief!

So what now?

I’d rather be a nice guy and have 8 people come to me and talk to me asking for help than having just one person all the time coming to me. Yeah it might not be total personal happiness, but if I’m being that hero then this is exactly how I want my life to be.

Let’s just get used to it

star-cunning asked: Stay nice! Remember what I said about nice being the bare minimum though. Be brave AS WELL AS being nice. If the girl rejects you, take it with grace and politeness and move on. That shows maturity and security, which are also attractive qualities.

ok but you need to know that there are some guys out there that are nice because its a natural reflex when they are dealing with someone they like…there intentions are pure and so are there actions its just some where along the line people started to lose trust 

star-cunning asked: It only does when that's the whole package! Being nice is like showering or brushing your teeth; it's the bare minimum. If being nice is your only selling point... well. I expect all people to be "nice" - to be polite and kind. I want to go out with someone who is also brave, adventurous, exciting, interesting, funny. "Brave" is important; if you like a girl, just ask her out. Pretending to be her friend is not only cowardly, it's manipulative and deceitful.

so the whole being friends first isn’t what a girl wants? Kinda makes sense if thats the case and putting all your cards on the table would seem to be best…but I cant stop being nice I dont even know I do it lol and I’m pretty sure it would be a bad thing for everyone should I know longer be a nice guy

star-cunning asked: Now, when one of your friends is crying, and says that her boyfriend hit her, or cheated on her, you're probably there thinking, "You've got me, this great guy under your nose, whom you're ignoring! I've been your friend for ages, and you still don't think of me as boyfriend material!" And she's crying, and you're getting more and more frustrated, right?

i understand that being nice doesn’t automatically mean you deserve something. I’m just at a lost as to when it counted against you?

Never consider myself to be a nice guy to be honest I just try to be a gentlemen now and then is that so wrong?

My everyday struggle to find a balance between love and everything else

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